Pinto's Corner

This is my last post here...

2009-04-04T07:19:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone, you can find me on FACEBOOK. Just search and add Nicholas Pinto.

I'm a travel advisor (or travel agent). Do support me if you need help for airtickets, tours, cruises...etc. I'm well connected and able to advice you, and will give you my best service. My company is well established and trusted. Our rates are very affordable. : )

Also let me know how I can support you if you need advice on business or if you just need someone with a listening ear. I love being a mentor... :D

Thanks to everyone for being a friend. Remember that you're an amazing person and you should always strive to be the best at what you do! Love you all.

Do SMS me your BIRTHDAY so I can remember you! My hp is 9487 4496.

Stay in touch, let me know how you're doing now and then. On facebook, by sms, or let me know your new blog link! We can also catch up...

God bless YOU!

Pinto

what do you love to do? how can you help others?

2009-02-12T04:48:00.000-08:00

If you love to cook, you can put nourishment into this world. You can feed your family and friends. You can create a restaurant that brings people pleasure. You can help in a 'soup kitchen' feeding the poor. Or all of the above. If you love being around children, you can put nurturing into the world as a teacher, mentor, or parent. If you love gardening, you can put beauty into the world everywhere you go. If your answer is developing new technology, you could put wonderful energy into the world by finding ways of enriching it instead of destroying it. No matter what you love to do, there is no end to what you can do to help people.

I love reading, gardening, teaching and ... kids!!!

So what do you love to do?

2009-02-12T00:51:00.000-08:00

Today is Gabriel's birthday. He is 5 years today. Here's a pic of him (2nd from left, standing) with his class and his teacher. He likes the girl 5th from the left, standing. Her name is Felicia.

I went out for a short meeting then proceeded to my son’s kindergarten to celebrate his birthday with his classmates. He had a Tom and Jerry cake, which made him quite happy.

Then sat in Raphael's Chinese class. His "lau sher" was teaching him and 5 others how to pronounce face features in Chinese. Can’t remember now how she pronounced “eye.” But boy was he ever cute saying it.

Tonight going to surprise grandmother with a cake. Her birthday also falls today.

Bucket List

2009-02-10T22:22:00.000-08:00

One of my top 10 movies. The Bucket List. I've watched it 3 times. It's a hilarious movie about two guys who are given about 6 mths - 1 yr to live. They form a special friendship and decide to make a list of things to do together before they "kick the bucket."

So they plan some things like go skydiving ,do something good for someone, laugh so hard until they cry, etc.

What would you do if you have 6 mths to live?

This would be my bucket list (1st draft):

Learn to cook my wife a meal
Write couple of nice notes to people (still living) letting them know how much I love them, and the difference they made to my life
Give away my wealth
Relish the time with my children
Make a video collage for my family or make a scrapbook as a parting "gift"
Visit 3 countries I haven't been to. Go on a safari ride. Ride in a hot air balloon.
Sleep in my garden often
Get in touch with God

Life is good.

Gong Xi Fa Cai!

2009-01-27T05:29:00.000-08:00

Over the LNY weekend,

We visited family, gave ang pao, kids collected ang pao, played monopoly, watched Sky High, played Wii, visited friends, more ang pao... and took some pics...

Swimming at home.

Botanical Gardens & Jacob Ballas.

Grandma Doris. Still looking good.

Mike learnt to ride the bicycle on his own! I love being a dad..

Back to work tomorrow.

2009-01-20T16:52:00.000-08:00

What a powerful video.

Must watch for all. Imagine its me giving each of you a hug.

http://www.maniacworld.com/are-you-going-to-finish-strong.html

Miss you guys.

Pinto

2009-01-19T22:42:00.000-08:00

Back again. : )

Some parents asking me to TUTOR their kids. Ex-students have also been asking me to teach Add Maths. Giving preference to those I have taught before. Will decide after CNY. Anyone else interested pls let me know early hor!

Boy do I miss teaching.

Just sent my accountant to help me get new notes from the bank. It's time to give away money!

Supposed to go Seletar Airbase to meet some people.

Later.

2009-01-13T21:29:00.001-08:00

I was very happy to return to Sengkang to check out the O level results on the 12 Jan.

It was really wonderful to see some of you receiving your results and it must have felt good that your hard work paid off. I smiled and was very happy to see many of you hit your targets and above. MSG was 2.5 with almost 50% distinction. Only one person failed (D7), which is pretty good considering the effort was there. Good effort girl. I just love teaching Maths. Especially A Maths! Life is like a roller coaster sometimes. And right now, I'm high in the sky with the great outcome that each of you worked so hard for. No words to describe this feeling... because it means to me YOU GOT GOOD RESULTS for A MATHS. Hope I've been effective and served you well, despite leaving in June. Feels really good. So good. You deserve it guys... I'M SO PROUD OF EACH OF YOU! love you guys.

Wishing those of you who received your results a very GREAT future ahead! BELIEVE IN YOURSELVES! Really do keep in touch, let me know occasionally how you're doing. And at the very least invite me to your wedding! I will give you a good ang pao, k! : )

2008-12-17T00:24:00.000-08:00

It's that special time of the year... CHRISTMAS is coming, baby!
This is the season to share, love, laugh, give, smile and turn the other cheek. Actually, that's how I think we should be treating people all the time!
I remember having a couple of lonely Christmases when I was serving my National Service. My wish is no one gets left out on Christmas day. If you are just text me...

Wishing you who have blessed my life a very beautiful and MERRY Christmas.

God bless you!

2008-11-05T00:04:00.000-08:00

Hey hey hey!

While having lunch today, I saw two elderly guys taking turns looking after a baby girl. One was feeding the girl while the other guy was holding her still. They were seated at a table next to mine, so I asked one of the guy's holding the baby if he was the father.

The man responded "No, I'm her Uncle down for a holiday from the US. He's (meaning the other guy feeding) another Uncle who looks after her."

After some chit chat, the Uncle from US disclosed that her parents died about 6 months ago in the bus accident in Malaysia, which appeared in the Straits Times (with two other Singaporeans). The baby girl Julie, was flung out about 10 metres during the crash together with her baby seat. She was lucky to live. She was only 2 months old when it happened!

I listened silently. Said I was sorry to hear about the misfortune. I confess I was not in the best of moods this morning because of a neck strain. I was feeling crappy about myself! Meeting these two guys and little girl brought some PERSPECTIVE to my day. I had to refocus my lens, and look at the bigger picture. There are so many people out there who have it worse. I was both moved and humbled.

I told the two men I respect what they're doing. I could see these two gentlemen were quite fond of looking after the little girl. No doubt the local Uncle has to play the role of mother and father. I'm sure he has it tough, despite his appearing cheerful.

Before we parted I touched the little girl's arm, as if to bless her and feel blessed by her presence. Julie kept looking at me. I reassured the Uncle she's going to turn out fine. She'll be strong, brave, and she'll be a survivor! I offered my biz card to the Uncle looking after the girl and said if he needed to talk, just call.

Life could be short. Give your siblings, mum or dad... whoever's close to you and staying with you... a hug tonight. I know I'm gonna give my wife and kids a big one when I see them. In the blink of an eye, things could change unexpectedly. Let's not take people we care about for granted.

So.... here's a BIG HUG to you reading this too! : )

2008-09-26T08:36:00.001-07:00

It's been an amazing month.

I've been exploring new things, and meeting people in occupations I never knew existed in S'pore. For example, I just met an unlikely duo who have paired because of the engineering and design background to do some classified projects for our government. Amazing. Really brilliant people too.

How are you?

It's been a while. Exams around the corner. Feeling a little anxious and worried?

Hey it's normal to feel that especially now. It's perfectly human.

Fight the good fight until its over. It'll be November soon. Hang in there.

Love you all.

THANK YOU!

2008-08-28T17:49:00.000-07:00

Hey guys,

Thanks to everyone who's been thinking of me, sending a post and sms-ing. I'm really touched you remember me still even though I've left teaching.

The truth is we are all teachers. Including you. Yes, you! Everyone is.

I want you to know that I miss you greatly and love you all.

God bless you!!!

2008-08-12T07:46:00.001-07:00

Rafa & me - Downtown East playground

Wow. It's been a while since I posted. I know some of you have popping by my blog and asking what's up... so sorry...

During my absence I've been super busy with work and trying to squeeze in time with the family! And still am working hard as usual, to make things happen.

Here's an update. I've made it a point to read more books, and to immerse myself in the company of people who are positive & those who share similar aspirations as me. I may have shared with you in class: it's ok if you don't know everything... make sure you mix with people who know more and who can help you... learn from them and also give back to them in some way.

Today I met a business colleague. We connected easily because our intention is to support each other's business. We happen to share very similar priorities in life:

God, then
Family - Wife, Children, Parents (in that order), then
Health, then
Business.

For you my dear friends, could I switch the last with

Studies.

However if you are sitting for exams, pls prioritise and know what you must do. Hey I know the results are out for MT. How'd you do? either msn, email, tag me or sms me k.

Love you.

2008-07-21T07:47:00.000-07:00

Kids having a wild time. Tung Lok, East Coast.

you're not forgotten

2008-07-17T17:45:00.000-07:00

I've been REAALLL busy. Will keep you posted by end of the month. Hope you are all doing ok. Understand CT approaching soon. Keep at it and stay focused.

Love,
Pinto

2008-07-07T07:14:00.000-07:00

Hey keep tagging your emails. I'm only gonna get back to those who tag. Pretty soon.
Seriously.
Really.
: )

READ THIS & LEAVE YOUR EMAIL

2008-07-01T06:57:00.000-07:00

To you beautiful people reading this:

I am taking a short break from blogging as I may be travelling a bit now & then. (I will still be around on Saturdays so guys don't worry - everything is on as per normal).

FOR EVERYONE, pls keep in touch and do tag your email so I can keep you posted now and then of interesting stories that will motivate, inspire and hopefully make a difference in your life.

Remember to include your name. EG:

John jtay@singnet.com.sg

I would like to express how much I care and believe in you. You are great just as you are. Each and every single one of you. I do not take you for granted, I value your time and thank you tremendously for your being a part of my life. I really and sincerely hope you continue to be a part of it and grow together with me, and lets continue to be friends.

Thank you for reading my blog and being an avid supporter. I just want to say you are worth all the tired nights I stayed up to blog or post something funny. : )

I have more I want to share with you, so pls remember to leave your email.

In addition, for those who leave your email I'll also keep you updated on what I'm currently doing / working on.

I love you guys very, very much. Sooooo much.

I'll keep in touch. Promise.

Here's one before I go:

Darth Vader to Elmo: Who's your DADDY??? LOL

2008-07-01T06:52:00.000-07:00

Thanks Aniysh, I appreciate the CN pics!

2008-06-30T10:43:00.001-07:00

LOL. I couldn't help posting this. Cookie Monster having a healthy diet with no more cookies...

2008-06-30T01:23:00.000-07:00

Started the day at the Good Shepherd Cathedral. Remembered two friends going through a rough time and said a short prayer for them. One had a close relative pass away, another has an important decision to make in his life. Prayer is an important part of our family life, and my life.

I’ve been sitting ‘on a work-related problem’ for a few days. It’s been on my mind, and I’ve been racking my brain trying to find a solution. Last night I was asking a lot of questions about what and how I could do to solve this problem. I must have dozed off and fallen asleep while thinking about it.

Suddenly this morning, midway through breakfast, an idea crossed my mind… and EUREKA! Everything connected and I found a solution to my problem!!! It was funny because I was enjoying my kaya bread and egg and wasn’t even thinking about it!!!

Have you ever experienced this before? It’s as though I threw the problems to the back of my mind and somehow a solution came out of it.

After breakfast I proceeded to Carlton hotel for a briefing.

Later we meet with a couple of vendors, to formalize an agreement.

Had Sakae Sushi for lunch.

Meeting a lovely couple tonight to discuss some future plans.

Hey anybody wants to learn more about Bali let me know as I just completed a mini-project on it which just ended today.

2008-06-29T08:05:00.000-07:00

Someone sent this to me. Quite funny...

Determination

2008-06-29T03:52:00.000-07:00

I'm sure thousands of businesses that statistically should have failed are successful today because of the determination of their owners.

In the first 3 years in the auto business, Henry Ford went bankrupt twice.
Coca-cola sold 400 Cokes in its first year.
Apple Computer was rejected by Hewlett-Packard and Atari.

I remember I once conversed with a friend (who was in marketing) how many calls he would make to a prospect before giving up. He told me: "It depends on which one of us dies first."

Determination is what keeps us hammering away. As Vince Lombardi said, "It's not whether you get knocked down. It's whether you get up again."

Look at Mother Teresa. The tiny nun brought world attention to the plight of the poor through her quiet determination.

Just because the going gets tough, it doesn't mean you should throw in the towel. Be like a postage stamp. Stick to it until you get there.

2008-06-28T10:06:00.000-07:00

Today was a great Saturday.

Morning enrichment: so nice to see everyone. I'm really enjoying my Sat mornings, like the highlight of my week!!!

Afternoon enrichment: time spent bonding with Mike & Gabs. Mike's gonna go for his TKD grading soon. He's preparing for his yellow belt.

I had some friends over to my house in the evening. Some brought their kids. It was nice seeing the kids really enjoying themselves. I've not been spending too much time with my kids this week. It's been very busy and I'm feeling guilty. I had no time to get the gelato ice cream too. I have to make up for them.

Met a friend I haven't seen for 5 years, and we had a good time catching up. It reminds me of how important it is to keep in touch. Time flies.

Cultural Nite pics

2008-06-28T09:34:00.000-07:00

Krystle.

Dinner kaki.

Shu Mei...

Elisse & Sammy... doesn't she look like a doll?

The heart break kid, Shaun.

Cultural Night

2008-06-27T07:47:00.000-07:00

Ms Khalidal, if you're reading this, YOU DID GOOD! I enjoyed your production!!! :D

I also really enjoyed catching up with all you guys there. I really miss you all. It was good to see so many faces and though I didn't see everyone, I'm sure we will meet again.

I didn't bring my camera, so for those who were there can you pls send me the pics or let me know where I can get them so I can put them up and remember you on this night.

Love you guys.

Had a wonderful dinner with Seng Choon, Peng Jie, Shannon, Shili, Melody Loh, Jia Hao and Daren at BK, PS. We had a good laugh and we also got a little lost finding ACS. I like the guy with the best shoes. I hope he's reading this. Lol. We must get out more often.

Thanks for the lift James. CO SIR!!!

Today was fun. I'm looking forward to tomorrow!!!

NETWORK INTELLIGENCE

2008-06-26T08:20:00.000-07:00

Every Thursday, I meet some friends at 7.30am for about 2 hours and have breakfast together next to Raffles Place.

Barter trader, civil lawyer, educational consultant, finance expert, gelato importer (yeah!), 2 IT solution providers, property agent (she's hot!), a florist (he's hot too! Lol), a lady who owns an audit firm, aesthetics franchise owner, a couple working on corporate branding, and a few others. 22 of us for now. All in business, some are business owners, big shots and little shots. And then there's me. Offering them something they don't have, yet need.

We form a network. Even though we're from different trades, we're linked by the common understanding that its better to have friends and share ideas and refer contacts to each other than to try to make it on our own. Word of mouth referral is the best form of referral you know. There's a nice word I like to use: leverage. Why do it alone when you can have an extended arm helping you and vice versa?

I learnt this principle in school, and you may have heard me saying it to you in class before: don't just study hard, study smart and learn from those who know more / better. Don't be shy to make friends with those you think are cleverer than you and can help you. That's what I did. If I hadn't, I would have probably flunk my chemistry! If you can, offer to share what you know too. It's better to have a smart friend than to work alone and have no one to turn to! Guess what, it applies in working life too! But nobody's going to tell you to mix with people who have got more knowledge or expertise to help you.

Take it from me: in life, there are times when you don't have to know everything as long as you know people who do.

That's work too. But working smart. If you're studying in school, STUDY SMART.

And when you start to work, call me and I'll be your coach again and your mentor to show you the first steps. Whether you're interested in business, or just need a friend... : )

You are what you read

2008-06-25T08:19:00.000-07:00

I remember someone sharing this with me when I was a teenager: You are what you read.

It is true you can learn much from reading good books. I believe I am finally making reading a daily habit. I spend half an hour every day reading while commuting. I find its addictive in a way, and boy do I actually enjoy it!

Incidently, do you also know you are what you eat?

If there is any truth in that, I must be a chocolate banana nut!!! LOL

So what food are YOU??? Tag me if you dare share... just for fun!

2008-06-23T07:37:00.000-07:00

I sms-ed an ex-colleague how I missed not going to school today.

I really miss all you guys reading this.

Hope to see you real soon.

A Simple Formula for a Meaningful Life

2008-06-23T05:04:00.000-07:00

I'm halfway through a book called "Tuesdays with Morrie" written by Mitch Albom. Simple to read, yet beautiful insights about life. Here's an excerpt on finding a meaningful life:

"Devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating, something that gives you purpose and meaning."

Hmm... Love others and do something purposeful.

Now that's a life formula I could live by.

Choose your direction carefully

2008-06-22T09:11:00.000-07:00

This one's for all you guys who are starting school term tomorrow.

Plan your path well. Choose the wrong way and you could be a goner.

It is important to remain focused on your goals and outcomes and stay on the right path.

Have a good week!

Fears vs Dreams

2008-06-21T22:04:00.000-07:00

Today somebody asked "What do you fear the most?"

I shrugged my shoulders. Okay I will be honest I am fearful of a few things.

I am fearful of working until old age, cos they're prolly gonna raise the bar and say we have to work until 70, if we live that long.
I am fearful of having poor health.
I am fearful of what would happen to my family should I die young.

I see having dreams as the positive way of looking at things, cos you know the direction you want to head. I don't want to live or focus on my fears. I guess I should make provisions and start working towards these things so there's no need to be fearful.

What are your fears? Better yet, what are your dreams? Care to share?

2008-06-19T08:09:00.000-07:00

I've discovered that believing the best in people usually brings the best out of people.

Mark Twain said, "Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great."

The question to ask ourselves: Do I believe in the best of others?

"Excuse me, I've got cancer and I'm a survivor"

2008-06-18T06:03:00.000-07:00

Today I was talking to a friend. She's about my age and has been through a lot of challenges in her life. The latest is cancer. I wish you could meet her and hear her story. I asked and she gave me permission to share a bit about her on my blog.

She shared about how her life is so precious to her now, and she wants to pass the message to people she meets that you have to treasure every moment and make the best of your time whatever you do. And how we should really take care of our health from young! She shared with me her sufferings and how much she's spent so far on treatments alone (over $30k). And how she's scared because she can have a relapse anytime.

She was laid off work and had difficulty finding a job after her chemotherapy. I felt sorry for her. So I thought for a moment how I could help her without letting her feel like I was doing it just because I felt sorry for her. I shared with her my business plan and offered her to join me if she felt she was up to it. "After all, I'm looking for a good secretary," I winked.

Just wanted to share that this lady has such an optimism about her. It certainly made me reflect on my life when I was with her. I wonder what would I do differently if I was told I had cancer or some incurable disease?

What would you do differently? Lets not wait until we should hear such news. I hope we don't contract any terminal illnesses, but I hope you and I learn to live life to the fullest.

2008-06-17T06:14:00.000-07:00

When I got home from work, I was informed that my son did his poo poo inside his pants. This son of mine likes to bluff especially when he does this. So I was very careful how I approached him. Here's how our conversation went:

Dad: Rafa , if you tell me the truth, I will understand. Daddy doesn't like lies. And if you lie to me, and I find out, I will spank you. Do you understand?

Rafa: (Nods his head in understanding).

Dad: Good. Did you uh-uh-uh in your pants today?

Rafa: Noooo...

Dad: Rafa, don't lie...

Rafa: Noooo.... Daddy I did not uh-uh-uh in my pants...

Dad: Rafa, I'm warning you...

Rafa: ...I uh-uh-uh in my UNDERWEAR!

Dad: ... (looking at Rafa, speechless)...

Rafa: ... (looking at Dad then points his finger at me)... HA HA HA.....

I kept my poker face even though it was really quite funny. My wife who was watching was trying not to laugh at me. Good one!!! My kid has a great sense of humour!

So does humour overcome disappointment? And is all forgiven? ABSOLUTELY!

So there was no spanking. : )

A Warrior

2008-06-16T17:06:00.000-07:00

A man with a dream will not be denied. A man with a dream is like a warrior. A warrior is someone who cannot be stopped. He will go all out and achieve his mission.

I am such a warrior. So are you.

Pic from The Last Samurai.

Someone feels like a somebody today...

2008-06-16T05:09:00.000-07:00

Today, one of my colleagues was having a tough morning. I could see something was bothering her and it was affecting her work. So I listened to her during lunch as she shared her problems. After that, I told her that she's really doing an incredible job and that I support her 100% when it comes to her doing her work. I meant it. I saw her whole face lit up. "So you ok?" I asked. "I feel like an important person," she replied.

I think the recognition and my belief in her ability helped her feel "like a somebody."And by the looks of things, she performed her office duties a lot better in the afternoon!

When you believe in people, every day is a terrific day. Why? Because every morning brings a day in which someone's life can change.

Everyday is an opportunity for us to make a difference in someone else's life.

I hope my colleague continued to have a great day, and hopefully, she'll have a great week. I hope you do too. : )

BTW, If you're planning to be in orchard and would like to meet up for lunch... send me an sms to let me know!

Father's Day

2008-06-14T20:26:00.000-07:00

It's Father's Day.

I'm grateful for the gift of Fatherhood. I'm far from being a perfect father. I do feel disappointed in myself sometimes when I fall short of being the kind of father I strive to be. A father's work is a great responsibility. Say what you will... to be a father isn't easy. Especially when it comes to role modeling and wanting what's best for their kids.

I know my Dad did his best to raise us. And now I understand the rotans I received were necessary when I did those regrettably dumb things when I was a lot younger. Like breaking my brother's album (its like a cd) because he took my toy. Whack! Like secretly throwing away the green vegetables I was supposed to eat into the garden. Whack! Like losing my brother's expensive bicycle which he bought with his own money. Double whack! Though it was painful (the rotans), I see now that it was my father's love behind it that made me realise right from wrong. His motives were the best for me, to grow up into the kind of person he would be proud of.

I'm sure your Dads are proud of you, although they may not say it. They are doing their very best for you. You are their child, a precious one in your father's (and mother's) eyes. No matter what.

Read this again: You are special, precious and beautiful in their eyes. No matter what.

Forgive us, your fathers, if we fall short of your expectations, we are just doing our best, in the best way we know how.

Hey, if your Dad is still around, it's a great day to give your Dad a hug, tell them that you love them or just say thank you. And its never too late even after today, but just find the courage and do it. As difficult and awkward as it is for you.

Hey Dad-o. You're far far away, but know that I truly love you.

"The time is now."

2008-06-14T09:23:00.000-07:00

For the those reading this, the song title says it all. It happens to be Stoneman's favourite song.

Dedicated to my friends.

Enjoy it.

Friends who will "go to battle with you"

2008-06-13T23:14:00.000-07:00

You may have friends, but not all of them will be the kind to stick with you when you need them. Such friendships are special.

It's said that a friend is someone...

who will keep your secrets and never divulge them - even if tortured or tempted with chocolate (or in my case, Ben & Jerry's choc chip ice cream!)
who will lift you up when you are down
who listens to you even though they may disagree with what you're saying
who may at times embark on something with you not so much because they personally believe in it, but because they want to do it with you and support you

Friends who will stick with you are that - and then some. They'd face any danger with you. They'd do anything for you. They'd give anything of theirs to you.

I read a story once about two soldier friends. When one of them was injured on the battlefield and couldn't get back to safety, his buddy went out to get him, against his officer's advice. He returned wounded, and his friend, whom he had carried back, was dead.

The officer was angry. "I told you not to go," he said. Now I've lost one and you're useless. It was not worth it."

The injured man replied, "But it was, sir, because when I got to him, he said "hey, I knew you'd come back."

Unlike what these two men faced, the conflicts we face may not be on the battlefield. They may not be life or death. No matter what, wouldn't you prefer to face them with a friend at your side? If so, be a friend to others, the kind that others can trust, no matter what.

The people whom we can really call as friends we can count on are few. It's also true that we may not be that kind of friend to all people. But if there are people in your life who would "go to battle with you," value them, for they are rare indeed.

I'd like to say a very special thank you those who know me personally, who have been with me and would be with me when I need someone in my corner. This especially goes out to V, RP, "stoneman" and Ed P. People I trust who have shown their friendship to me when it was not asked for. It means a whole lot to me. Thanks, guys!!!

2008-06-13T08:11:00.001-07:00

Work.

Shopping at Centerpoint. The Great Singapore Sale is still on. Lunch at Sanur Restaurant.

Kung Fu Panda with wife and kids. It was hilarious. LOL.

Gardening.

I had an enjoyable dinner with my ex-5N1s (07) at Hong Kong Cafe, Kovan. Thanks Yu Heng for organising the makan. It was a great turn-out. Lovely company, but same lame jokes la! Lol. Its just incredible how time flies and now you're all in tertiary institutions... hey do fill me in once in a while so I can keep track of your developments. : )

L to R: Yee Ling, Li Xian, Ivan, Pei Ling, Edwin, Gui Qing, Vinod, Hui Yu, me, Boon Peng (Emily), Ragu, Boon Kwang, Sandy, Alvin, Yuh Yang, Jamie, Jian Long, Eshlyn, Yu Hua, Yu Heng, Wei Liang!

The serious (right) and not-so-serious (left)...

With the well-composed ladies...

and the merry men... It sure was nice to meet up again. Thanks for having me, thanks for the treat, and thanks for the bottle of wine.

The pics are uploaded and with Mr Nice Guy.

2008-06-12T08:07:00.000-07:00

An evening with the creatures of the night...

Must admit that although the entrance and tram ride costs were a little expensive, it was a rather enjoyable trip to the Night Safari. Well, at least the kids loved it. We caught the Orang Asli performing at the entrance, then made our way for the 7.30pm Creatures of the Night Show, followed by a tram ride. While on the tram ride, we saw 4 wild tapirs, one close enough to touch! My favourite was the Cawang (aka the big daddy elephant)!

Rating: 4.5 / 5 stars

Recommendation: If its your first visit to the Night Safari, the tram ride is a good idea as you get to see most the animals without having to tire yourself by walking (and the view is very clear for most animals). You could bring a bag of peanuts or nachos like I did and munch on it as you enjoy the trip throught the cool, pseudo-tropical rainforest. Just be sure not to litter!

Orang Asli showing off their skills... an amazing fire display. I wonder how they've managed to do this over the years and not get their face/mouths/tongue burnt. Not to be tried at home or anywhere!

Rafa & Mike on a still croc's back.

There's a time to play and there's a time to work. This week has been like an "enjoy life" week with the family. Tomorrow, its back to the grind (work). So glad its Friday tomorrow. : )

2008-06-11T06:58:00.000-07:00

We invited some family friends to join us for lunch in our home today. Their kids and our kids played Nintendo Wii, Zingo, went for a swim, and watched Mr Bean cartoon. What a life!!!

Then in the evening we went to Escape Theme Park, Downtown East. We had a great time sitting on the mini roller coaster ride twice. We played some games and I won - get this - 5 stuffed toys!!! All kindly donated to the kids of course... : )

A candid pic of my wife kissing Rafa.

The GIVER receives, and often receives MORE!!!

2008-06-10T07:15:00.000-07:00

Very recently, I heard Charmaine spent two afternoons to be with her friend recovering in hospital. I was moved to hear of how she was a caring friend. She motivated her friend to rest and get better by saying something like "recover soon, so we can together do all the stuff you love like shopping (and so on)." Wow.

On the 4th June I posted a question whether you feel it's better to give or receive, and I would like to thank everyone for their replies.

As for the question, I guess Charmaine knows the answer. Charmaine simply gave of something that was a part of herself: her companionship and her precious time. With no expectation of returns or self-benefit.

I'm inspired. I decided yesterday that I was going to be a person who "gives" of my time this week. My target is to just do one conscious act of self-giving to someone in need (in the general sense) for each day of the week. For starters, with my family.

I'm happy to share what I did yesterday:

My younger brother who's away on overseas attachment needed some specific items sent to him. I called him to get the list, went shopping for him at Giant, boxed and sealed up everything and sent it to his friend's place to be shipped to him.

What I 'lost': time running around (finding and packing things)
What I 'received' for giving: a personal sense of satisfaction (that I could help him when he needed it)

There is something about giving. Conventional wisdom states that the more you give, the less you have. I have found that its a paradox: "the more you give, the more you have." I believe this principle is true in every area of life.

Hey, it's important in life to be both a giver and receiver. But between giving and receiving, I hope more of you choose to be a GIVER! : )

Family time!

2008-06-09T23:48:00.000-07:00

Now that I have a family, I cannot imagine a life without them. I have devoted this week to spend time with my fam. Here's some pics taken these last 3 days.

This is my most beautiful wife Val whom I love and cherish and without whom my life would be empty. Hey babe, I feel like I am the luckiest man on this planet. I love you! : )))

Rafa's first pony ride at the Zoo.

Gabs, Val, me, Rafa and Rod, a 38 yr old Egyptian Vulture. Mike wasn't too keen to take a pic with us after what he heard about vultures. This was today at the Birdpark.

Barney Live in Concert at Suntec City. We finally saw Riff!!!

I like this pic. This is Rafa after his fall and me snuggling him.

The three angels Michael, Raphael and Gabriel down the slide at a park.

A pretty accurate picture description of my life these last 3 days. LOL!

Plans this week:

Tomorrow morning: Downtown East... again!!
Thursday evening: Night Safari!!
Friday: ???

We desperately need a babysitter... anyone interested to join us??? lol!

MY NEW OCCUPATION

2008-06-09T03:37:00.000-07:00

A lot of you guys have been asking me what am I doing.
I keep telling those of you asking I'm into gardening.
After all, what's wrong with being a gardener??? LOL ; )

Check out my new cactus plants!!!

2008-06-08T03:56:00.001-07:00

Hey guys the weekend escapade pics have been uploaded.
Check with Mr English (5Ns 06) and Superpoker (4E2s 07) for the links.

2008-06-08T02:45:00.000-07:00

I woke at 6 today. And Portugal won!

Brought the family to church for an early morning Mass. Counted my blessings, remembered some people, said a prayer.

My kids had their swimming lessons. I took Rafa for a little swimmie too for one-to-one time with Dad. Initially he didn't want to get into the pool. Half an hour later he was fearless, trying to jump in excitedly from the pool side!

"Come to Daddy!" Rafa thinks he can't do it on his own, initially. My hand gesturing Rafa to step in and walk towards me.

Rafa prepares to jump! He's shivering because the water was cold and there was a slight draft.

Immediately after the swimmie, took everyone to East Point and fed them.

After that I left the kids and proceeded for a lunch treat at Swensen's, Compasspoint. I had fun catching up and talking absolute nonsense with some of my ex-students from 4E2 (07)! I still can't believe Mildred is in Dragonboat racing. LOL ; D

Thanks Edna for the invite and really appreciate the booklet you all made with all the nice words and pictures. It was very thoughtful and sweet. Do keep in touch and drop me a post/superpoke once in a while. And hey, if you are reading this, know that you're gonna do fine in life.

Thanks for the treat!
L to R: Mei Siew, Yi Lin, Edna, Connie, Vinson, me, Meng Jun, Tee Soon, Anica, Mildred.

I was feeling naughty.... lol.

Colonel Sanders, and the boys.

Tonight I'm gonna watch a movie with my wife. So don't bug me. : D

MMLS: You're right. I feel gratefully blessed.

A day with students, a date with the Inseperables.

2008-06-07T08:48:00.000-07:00

I saw my students for enrichment today. I have been looking forward to this day for a week. I sure do miss them! I'm proud that they braved their wall which was the rainy weather and arrived on time. Splendid work this morning, guys! I enjoyed being present and spending time with you. See you again soon!! : D

To Ling x 2: We're praying for you. Have a speedy recovery!

Late lunch at The Amara to discuss some matters with a couple of business colleagues.

Then drove to Vivocity to do a little window shopping and burn off some calories.

Next location was Sakura International, Downtown East. Ms Khalidal and myself were invited by Daniel for buffet dinner. An evening out with the 5Ns (2006). Funny, noisy and lovable people studying in poly, enjoying their two week break. Cai Jun and Pearlyn Teo served us food and their own cocktail soft drinks! The VIP treatment was terrific! So was the food. I liked the company best! I stayed on after to play with them at the arcade (since bowling was fully booked) and we snapped a few nice pics.

Thanks for feeding us.
Clockwise from left: Astley, Ernest, Daniel (organiser), me, Shi Min, Cai Jun, Alex, Hong Rui, Amer, Yuan Yuan, Pearlyn Tan, Mandy, Ms Khalidal, Charlene, Pearlyn Teo.

Ernest & I beat Alex & Amer in foosball. 6-4. LOL.

Pearlyn Tan never fails to leave us with fond memories. Here she shows off her unorthodox championship skills to get 120 redemption tickets! Whatever this game is called...

The Inseperables. Before we parted.

Hey, Portugal is on tonight. Catch you later. I'll try to put the pics up soon. : )

The WALL

2008-06-06T10:00:00.000-07:00

We all face personal challenges in our lives. A personal challenge is something like an obstacle that needs to be resolved or addressed before we can "move on" with our lives and be at ease again. For one person, this could be overcoming the death of a very close relative. For another, it could be failing the exams and facing the possibility of repeating a year or not qualifying for poly/JC. For another, it could be detecting they have cancer.

I just want to share what's important is not the challenge itself, but how we DEAL with such challenges.

I call my personal challenge an invisible but very real obstacle known as the wall.

These last few days have been quite tough for me. I've hit the wall. The wall blocks my path and says "it's impossible to move on." Have you ever felt like there was something you so strongly believed in, but somehow there was something in the way that told you it wouldn't work? In my case, it makes me almost want to either give up or turn around and abandon my plans and ideas. And I'm NOT the kind to quit so easily. I've encountered the wall before in a different time and place. It almost stopped my hopes and dreams then. Fortunately back then, I persisted and barely made it past my wall.

These days I face another wall. It's different from before, and it's a huge one. I've been trying to break my wall. But I just can't seem to. It's like a brick wall. It's blocking me from moving forward, laughing in my face and tempting me to give up. I feel physically, mentally and emotionally drained, and my creative juices to resolve this seems to have stopped flowing. I have no idea how I'm going to get through this one.

I went home. My youngest son Rafa, upon seeing me at the playground, ran to me and upon reaching me, threw his small arms over me and gave me the biggest hug a two year old could give. He shouted "Hi Dad!" and smiled.

I needed that. Now I'm feeling a 100% better. I'm refueled now and charged again. I'm going to face my wall again tomorrow, and over the next few weeks. This time, if I can't break it down, I'm going to do whatever I can to climb over, go under or move around it. Although I don't have the answers yet to overcome my wall, I KNOW I'm going to get past it.

The wall has robbed the hopes and dreams of many people. What will YOU do when you encounter your wall?

I hope you will not give up, but persist and find a way to break it. If not, jump over, go under or walk around it!

You can overcome your walls, too!

I once shared this song in my form class of 5Ns in 2006 before they graduated (in the last lap of preparations before their O Levels). It's a song about going the distance, with a never-say-quit "fighting to the end" spirit. A song for survivors.

Now I'd like to share it with all of you. It's a favourite of mine called "Eye of the Tiger." This was the theme song to Rocky III. In the movie, Rocky Balboa is living the good life and slacking in his training. In contrast were scenes of his competitor Mr. T, training hard, sweating, bleeding and pouring out every last ounce of effort to become the boxing champion of the world. After the death of Rocky's trainer, Rocky's friend Apollo Creed, tells Rocky to get back "The Eye Of The Tiger," meaning his edge and his hunger to be the champ once again.

Maybe you know someone who is going through a tough time. Share with them this song and what it means, direct them to read the lyrics and this post on my blog. Also you can send me an email if you wish to share your personal experiences of getting through your own challenges. I'd love to hear from you.

I've included the song lyrics at the bottom left.

I chose this Rocky V pic cos I like the image of victory displayed.

Your comments please: Is it better to give or receive?

2008-06-04T09:45:00.001-07:00

Dear friends, I would like to hear from you whether is it better to give or receive. Could you please leave your comments. There's no right or wrong answer. Just state which you prefer. You could state why, and perhaps you may wish to leave an example of when it was that one was better than the other.

For eg: I like to receive because I get lots of angpao during CNY. Or I like to receive because I don't like to give.

Another eg: I like to give because it makes me feel good. The last time I gave (someone) an umbrella when it was raining made me feel wonderful.

Please remember to comment.

NEVER GIVE UP

2008-06-04T04:53:00.000-07:00

I can't imagine a life without laughter.

Sometimes its nice to share a good laugh.

DREAM ON

2008-06-03T07:24:00.000-07:00

This song was the first single released by Aerosmith. Steven Tyler had been working on this on and off for about 6 years, and was able to complete it with the help of the rest of the band. Tyler was quoted as saying "It's about the hunger to be somebody: Dream until your dreams come true."

I recall hearing this song playing over the closing credits of the movie Miracle, about the US Olympic Hockey team. In the credits, they explain what has happened to each member of the team since they won the gold medal. It happens to be quite an inspiring movie for all you in sports/CCAs.

Try to follow the words if you've never heard it before.

DREAM ON

Everytime that I look in the mirror

All these lines on my face gettin clearer

The past is gone

It went by like dust to dawn

Isn't that the way

Everybodys got their dues in life to pay

I know what nobody knows

Where it comes and where it goes

I know its everybodys sin

You got to lose to know how to win

Half my life is in books written pages

Live and learn from fools and from sages

You know its true

All the things come back to you

Sing with me, sing for the years

Sing for the laughter, sing for the tears

Sing with me, if its just for today

Maybe tomorrow the good Lord will take you away(x2)

Dream on, dream on, dream on

Dream yourself a dream come true

Dream on, dream on, dream on

Dream until your dream come true

Dream on, dream on, dream on...

Sing with me, sing for the years

Sing for the laughter and sing for the tears

Sing with me, if its just for today

Maybe tomorrow the good Lord will take you away

2008-06-03T02:12:00.000-07:00

Gabs at Downtown East. Can you see the words in the pic?

A Life of Gratitude

2008-06-02T07:35:00.000-07:00

Thanks for dropping by as I loaded all my things in the car...

Phylicia Chua (Top 4 student in 4E 2007). Thanks for the card too...

I have often found it ironic that the people in this world who have the most to be thankful for are often the least thankful, and somehow the people who have virtually nothing, many times live lives full of gratitude.

I remember a father who brought his spoilt son to a very poor country when the child was about 7 years. After seeing the faces of hungry children, and people staying in the streets with no shelter over their heads and no clothes on their backs, the father explained to the child that every morning when he got up, he would write down 5 to 10 things he was especially grateful for in his life.

Today, after 20 over years of learning that process taught by my father, the lesson has remained with me and I am still grateful for my life and what I have. Some days I am grateful for the most trivial things, and other days I feel a deep sense of gratitude for everything surrounding me. Some days I think and visualise what I'm grateful for, other days I try to make a list.

Here's my list of things I am grateful for today:

Today, I am grateful for a laughter shared with some colleagues.
I am grateful to my wife for always being there for me, and the time spent together.
I am grateful for my children to watch and play with.
I am grateful for my grand students for teaching me a lot.
I am grateful for having lunch with a group of great people who care about me.
I am grateful to Phylicia Chua and my many other students (some of whom I never taught!) for returning to say a thank you to me for helping in their studies or just to say goodbye.
I am grateful for all the fond wishes and kind words exchanged by students and teachers over these last two weeks, the sms-es received, the cards and tokens of love received, the tags on my blog and messages on FB, the treats, and most importantly, for these beautiful people just being a part of my life.
I am grateful for connecting with those of you reading this blog.
I am grateful for 4 memorable teaching years (in school).

Here's a thought. A lot of us have been given a lot... sometimes more than what others could ever dream of. Whether its an iPod, a new Zinc bag, decent clothes, money to watch movies, having 2 - 3 meals a day or living in a safe country... a lot of us have more than just what we need.

I read somewhere that gratitude provides a balance between the things we have and those we want.

I don't mind repeating myself 10 times if it helps to make a point. And I don't mind saying 'thank you' over and over again in all my blog posts to let each of you know how much I appreciate and value you.

If you want to feel blessed, be grateful. Always.

Yo Dad-o... this one's for you...

2008-05-31T03:28:00.000-07:00

Check the lovely butter cake with mazipan coating my dear wife just baked... Gabriel put the m&m's . Isn't it just cute. And it taste super good man... I'm not even a cake person and I dig it!

Rating upon 10: 11.

Gonna buy her a nice gift to reward her effort.

Love you, dear.

BOP TO THE TOP!

2008-05-31T00:01:00.000-07:00

My 6 year old son Michael bought a pencil set of some cartoon characters after lunch. In it there was a paper with some profile questions, such as asking for hobbies, favourite book, favourite subject, phone no. etc... On the way home, our conversation went something like this:

Mike: Hey Daddy what's a nickname?

Dad: For example, your name is Michael, but we call you Mike for short. Or just like instead of calling Gabriel, we call him Gabs. Or instead of Raphael... (pause)... we call him... (pause)...

Mike : Raf!

Dad: That's right!

Mike: What's a-d-d-r-e-s-s?

Dad: That's where we live. It has a street name and the house number. So people know where to find us.

Mike: e-m-a-i-l. What's that?

Dad: Instead of talking to a person over the phone, or writing a letter, we can type something in the computer and send a message to a person. I'll show you when we get back. Tonight we can send Grandpa and Grandma an email. I'll show you. Its easy.

Mike: Best friends. That's EVAN! Favourite music. 'Bop to the Top!' and 'What have I been looking for.' Happi...est Moment. What's moment?

Dad: That's the time that you remember yourself when you very, very happy. The happiest time. Like when I heard Mummy was pregnant with YOU! So what's your happiest moment?

Mike: (Thinks for a while). Going to Disneyland! Playing with Adam!

Dad: That's nice.

Mike: Your greatest dream.

Dad: That's what you want to be, do... or have. Like Gabs wants to be an altar boy. Or Daddy wants to be a gardener. (Just kidding). Or some people want to be a lawyer or doctor. Or be rich when they grow up. Some want to help poor people, or build a school. Others want to travel the world and spend more time with their family and friends.

Mike: Oh I know! Having high school musical coming over to my house. (I think he means the cast of HSM).

Dad: Okieee.... er... right... that's good, Mike!

Kids will be kids. I should just accept his answers for now. One day he will decide to dream bigger. At least its a start. And no matter how small a dream or wish, its always a good way to start.

Hey Mike, I know you can read this. This song's for you!!!

86,400 seconds

2008-05-30T02:56:00.000-07:00

I used to be satisfied with just getting by. Until I nearly failed my first year in uni and was given the option to buck up or get out. Fortunately for me I decided to work harder! Now as a teacher I wouldn't settle for this second-best attitude from my students. I'd say to them, "If you don't do it right the first time, you will pay the price for it later." And so they learn they have to redo it again... and waste more time... but eventually get it right, and in most cases, they perform pretty well!

To do a good job in studies, you must work smart. A few clever students realised they needed help and asked for me to coach them. They realised that time is really precious everyday for these next 4 months. I'm glad they know their priorities and put their studies first. Since they were persistent, I've made some provisions to help see some of them right through to the O Levels.

This blog post is dedicated to my committed heros who will be reaping their just rewards. I'll be with you until you cross the finish line. But the road to success is never smooth. There's going to be some tough times ahead. Stay focused, stay the course, and remember each day brings you 86, 400 seconds to get closer to your goals. You either use it or lose it!

And after the exams, we are going to celebrate your achievements.

Big time!!!

"Time lost is time lost. It's gone forever."

Say it Right! with Nelly Furtado

2008-05-29T09:04:00.000-07:00

Ok Yuheng thanks for your feedback... here's a change to the song...

This song is dedicated to red hot chili... because you seem to have JUST discovered who this singer is! Also out to all of you who like Nelly Furtado.

Lyrics bottom left. Lyrics to 'Better Man' shifted to my earlier dated post...

Hey can anyone give some feedback on my blog entries... pls give comments below my entries so my tagboard has some space... then I don't have to delete my tags! What would you like to see/read more of in my posts??? : D

Everyone's a Teacher

2008-05-28T23:24:00.000-07:00

Heard some of you have been dropping by and I wasn't in. So so sorry... pls gimme a call and let me know so we can have that pic... I would just love to capture a snapshot of each of you in my mind and also as a memory of how blessed I am. I know that in my senior years to come, apart from my family life, I will look back and truly say to myself these have been the most wonderful years, sharing with you about my life and stories, helping you with your studies and having a laugh with you.

I'm not posting all pics cos some have super strongly requested not to put it up on my blog. Ha ha ok. Respect that. So here are some taken today... Angela, Desmond, me at my desk (3E1 your flower is in the pic!), Mr Anbu (who's been a real wonderful mentor and friend every since I first came to Sengkang Sec - thanks so much bro I'm gonna miss you - really hope you don't mind me posting your pic... you've been just a terrific buddy and I want to share that with others!). Thanks for the card, Melissa! Will keep it and treasure the lovely thoughts...

A few of you texted me about seeing me before i go. Guys, it's ok if you're working or busy. i understand and its the thought that counts. My official last day is 2 June (mon). I'll be in abt 9 or 10am on mon, and out prolly by 11 or 12pm latest. And then it's "adios amigos" as a current school teacher!!!

Since we're on this topic, I'd like to share with you a story.

After my 1st son came into the world, i read a poster about a man walking at the beach in the sand with a boy coming along from behind, stretching out his steps as he tried to put his feet in the man's footprints. Inscribed on the poster was a poem "A Little Man Follows Me." Its words have impacted me greatly over the years. Now I share them with you.

A Little Man Follows Me

by Lee Fisher

A careful man I want to be,

A little fellow follows me;

I do not dare to go astray,

For fear he'll go the self-same way.

I cannot once escape his eyes,

Whate're he sees me do, he tries;

Like me he says he's going to be,

The little chap who follows me.

He thinks that I am good and fine,

Believes in every word of mine,

The base in me he must not see,

The little chap who follows me.

I must remember as I go,

Through summer's sun and winter's snow;

I am building for the years to be

That little chap who follows me.

I've realised the most important profession in the world is parenting. The second is teaching, and EVERYONE is a teacher to someone.

2008-05-28T02:36:00.000-07:00

"Out with the old, in with the new."

Finally got my family car I've been dreaming about getting the last 2 years.

A blue Toyota Picnic! The kids LOVE IT!!!

Ready... action!!!

2008-05-27T23:55:00.000-07:00

A couple of days ago I posted about having dreams and believing in yourself.

Just want to say its important not just to dream and plan, but to TAKE ACTION. One of the best lines in the movies about the importance of taking action came from Yoda, the Jedi Knight trainer in the Star Wars sequel, The Empire Strikes Back. While teaching Luke Skywalker about the power of the Force, Yoda says, "Luke, there is no try; there is either do or not do."

Here's something I read sometime back:

There were once 4 people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. An important job had to be done, and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody's job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it and that Somebody would do it. But Nobody realised that Everybody thought Somebody would do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.

Whatever your dreams and plans, be SOMEBODY who makes things happen.

2008-05-27T05:17:00.000-07:00

Great day.

Went to school.

Had lunch at Jalan Kayu.

Met with (see pics)... chatted a while and took some pics. Saw something 'scandalous'... actually it was 2 things 'scandalous.' Both right outside the school! SC and the now famous duo. wa ha ha. Those who witnessed understand. So I shall not post it here. But I will have to meet up with them and have a "chat."

Just returned after having a very lovely dinner with wife. She ordered german sausages and I wanted to try the seafood spaghetti... but it turned out the sausages were giant monster sausages... so she changed her mind & wanted the spaghetti & I had to eat the sausages. That's called love, cos I really was not in a sausage eating mood.

She had gelato, I watched. Because I had two giant sausages... I was too full... That's called REAL love again cos i wanted to eat it... and watching her eat my favourite gelato was priceless.

message of the day: unless you have a huge appetite or you really love sausages, avoid the GERMAN ones... lol!

2008-05-27T03:13:00.000-07:00

Ling Ling, Krystle and Eugene... fun-loving students...

2008-05-27T03:08:00.000-07:00

Shaik... the trusted NCC Part C IC.

2008-05-27T03:01:00.000-07:00

guess who else decided to pop by... HweeTeng, Kwok Meang, Mel C, Mel L, Mad, PGA Rachel & BiFang. I had a blast this afternoon with you guys... :)

2008-05-27T02:55:00.000-07:00

Nina, Mag (HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAG) and me... thanks for dropping by...

A GREAT SONG!

2008-05-26T19:04:00.000-07:00

Listen to the words of this song... Better Man sung by Robbie Williams... the lyrics at the bottom. My fav song at the moment. A fitting description of what I feel I'm going through as I take a leap of faith. And the mixed feelings of sadness I have to say goodbye to all of you my students and being your teacher... while excited and a little fearful about the great challenges and uncertainty ahead. But I BELIEVE in myself.

Question: Do YOU believe in YOURSELF? I've always believed in you my great student... you can do it. You can do anything you put your mind to. Dream, plan, and then go do it! No one can ever tell you "you can't do it" except yourself. Please remember that. YOU CAN DO IT... YOU CAN.

I believe in you. I believe in you. I believe in you.

Eileen wrote in her card to me "The journey uphill is going to be tough, but the view you get is well worth it." Tou che. I get it now. How true.

Better Man

Sung by Robbie Williams

Send someone to love me

I need to rest in arms

Keep me safe from harm

In pouring rain

Give me endless summer

Lord I fear the cold

Feel I'm getting old

Before my time

As my soul heals the shame

I will grow through this pain

Lord Im doing all I can

To be a better man

Go easy on my conscience

cause its not my fault

I know Ive been taught

To take the blame

Rest assured my angels

Will catch my tears

Walk me out of here

I'm in pain

As my soul heals the shame

I will grow through this pain

Lord Im doing all I can

To be a better man

Once you've found that lover

You're homeward bound

Love is all around

I know some have fallen

On stony ground

But love is all around

Send someone to love me

I need to rest in arms

Keep me safe from harm

In pouring rain

Give me endless summer

Lord I fear the cold

Feel Im getting old

Before my time

As my soul heals the shame

I will grow through this pain

Lord I'm doin all I can

To be a better man

2008-05-26T18:16:00.000-07:00

Pic from Kheng Ee, my ex-form student (5N1 06). Taken at Cultural Nite 2006. She received the award for being the TOP STUDENT! I'm still so proud of you!!! Another great self-believer. You gonna top in life too...

2008-05-26T08:58:00.000-07:00

HweeTeng helped me with the set up of the cbox earlier this evening over msn... appreciate it HT! Also she and Stella suggested communicating by MSN... so here's my email if you wanna add me: theguru711@hotmail.com . Try to figure what it means... and if you don't know think of "guru" and the store 7-11. If you still don't get it, ask me... lol. ; )

Melody Low, great idea to have music on this blogsite. Anyone knows how I would go about doing that?

2008-05-26T03:15:00.001-07:00

woke at 5am.
went to JB.
dropped the kids at great-grandparents house. yay... FREEDOM!
stuck in traffic on way back.
went to school...
downloading stuff into my external harddrive...
handing over ncc to the new CO
called Dr Soh...
spoke to a couple of friends about holiday plans
now learning what else I can do with this blogging... kinda new to it....
life is good.

just completed filing all the cards received over the years and the pics with people i care about. you gotta see it to believe it. hope to catch up with some of my current & ex-students this week to add a pic of you in my life. Quite free just clearing up stuff... do drop by and call before that...

2008-05-26T02:31:00.000-07:00

3E1... what did I do to deserve this? MUACKS!

2008-05-26T02:25:00.000-07:00

from the great 3e1... miss you guys oredi. hope ur enjoying the break...

2008-05-26T02:21:00.000-07:00

guess who dropped by... my ex-students from 4e1 2007
clockwise: Jiayi, Munirah, Ang Ren, Zhou Dao, Pyscho Pris, Shaun, me...
thanks for taking time off to visit me... :D (22 May).

Teachers

2008-05-25T10:23:00.000-07:00

I would like to thank all the teachers who have been so great. The Maths Dept trs, from my A Team (Maslinda, Joel, Adrian and Mr Toh), my NCC Team (James, Ryo & Chung Kiat) and colleagues & friends (u know who u r) for your gifts & treats at Swensens, Pizza, Golden Pillow... what else ar... I put on at least 5 kg last week alone! Time to start exercising soon... and not to mention drinking so much MUG rootbeer... super lol. To my colleagues... I have not uploaded your pics here to respect your privacy. Let me know if its okay and I'll do so... I really treasure the times growing with you and knowing you.

I am also grateful to serve the school and work with the respective School Leaders and KPs. Thank you esp to Mr Leong and Mr Singh for being exemplary role models for our youths and setting the high standards for our students.

We'll meet again soon.

2008-05-25T10:02:00.000-07:00

Wow... a CARTON of mug (too much to be shown here), a sunflower, back rub (how did you know I have a back ache???), a Goldlion tie (my fav!), FR chocolates, and many more... I feel so truly blessed. thanks to all of u.

I have filed up all your lovely cards, and apologise if I have not taken pics yet as some of your gifts are still in school... I will cherish all and remember each of you. Just want to thank my heros from 3E1 (also those whom I don't teach from 3E2), 3E3-5, 4E3 - 5 AM and 4E2 for your tokens of love. And the love from 4E1... You're the reason, baby! You ROCK!!!

2008-05-25T09:52:00.000-07:00

4e3-5 AM superstars: Jer, Mei, Elisse, Brinal, YongZheng, Chevy, Joachim, Donovan, Harrinder, Faris, Eugene, Wee Kit, me, Charmaine, Ling, Mel (the super long jumper!!!)... thanks for the treat and will miss you tremendously... did anyone take a pic of the carton of root beer...can send me...

2008-05-25T09:41:00.000-07:00

Thanks for the sabo... its a TRADITION I'm told... the ways these clowns look so happy you know SOMETHING unpleasant's gonna happen...

Clockwise from left: Sham (in No 4), Rafi, Farid, Sammy, Wilfred, Bernie
Eagles of my NCC. Salute!!! (22 May)

2008-05-25T09:34:00.000-07:00

Check what's inscribed on my plaque... eat your heart out cheryl... bwa ha ha (22 May)

2008-05-25T09:29:00.000-07:00

Our new leaders USM Benjamin and ASM Kadir... posing after giving me a plaque in tribute for my service in the NCC. Take the Unit to new heights, men! You can do it! (22 May)

2008-05-25T09:21:00.000-07:00

4E2... I will NEVER forget the crazy, wonderful thing you did you know where... what a united and outSTANDing class... Lol. (21 May)

2008-05-25T09:15:00.000-07:00

taken outside workroom... my 3E students and Andy from 4T!

2008-05-25T09:03:00.000-07:00

My ex-form students Janice and Gin Wee (5N1 06) flanked by 'mummy' (Ms Khalidal) and 'daddy' (me). Gin Wee just made the Director's Honours List!!! Yea, baby!!!

Thanks guys for dropping by on 15 May.

2008-05-25T08:57:00.000-07:00

pleasant surprise by 4e2...
touched, man... you guys are fabulous!!! 15 May

Dedicated to my students & ex-students

2008-05-25T08:28:00.000-07:00

This blog is dedicated to all my students and ex-students whom I have very been fortunate to care for and teach.

I would like to sincerely thank you for your many gifts, thoughtful cards, kind words, and friendships recently and over the years... its been a real blessing! I hope you had fun learning as much as I truly enjoyed teaching each of you the subject I love... Maths and A Maths! I enjoyed stepping in your classes and hope I made at least a small impact in your lives. Glad many of you opened up to me so that I can get to know you better.

Do give me feedback from time to time when you can. I love to know how you're doing. Also let me know how its been and share the memories you have/had... all the laughter and jokes... tears... and life as it was during our maths lessons...

GOD BLESS YOU!

And keep the comments coming!!! : )